How to Help a Friend Planning their Wedding
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Wedding happiness echoes from every corner, but what does it cost to have this wedding feeling capture that oh! So special moment? Lots of delicious food, color episodes, emotional affair and hoofing at peppy numbers are all at the periphery. But, it is a much bolder challenge than to actually get the wedding thing done right at high praise. What wedding looks like, perhaps not be as it is backstage. Families’ eventuality with work is never-ending. It demands lots of planning and back break efforts to paint that wedding canvas as it was dreamt of.
Holding your friend’s finger to giving his/her hand to somebody, who is going to be their soul mate, you can make a difference by becoming that bosom friend and help your cully to plan his/her wedding. There is an important place shared by the friends of the bride/groom. They can make their friend’s wedding look extra adventurous than anybody would have thought for. Here today in this blog we will tell you how you can add up that extra spice to your friend’s wedding and become a wedding star.
Planning, shopping, organizing, are all the other names to what we call is a wedding. Weddings are considered to be the biggest affair of not only for an individual but for the whole family. Trust me it’s not at all easy to get married, it’s way bigger than it seems. Apart from getting your hearts stitched to each other, getting your attires, budget, and bookings on point are other important duties to be done religiously to make your wedding right. And those people who are your unavoidable guest, permanent in your closet, best one for any plan, workers without payment and always available for you are known as FRIENDS. If you want to help your friend to have their wedding like a forever tale be that selfless friend and contribute moments to your unbreakable friendship.
Why your friend would need you?
Count my words, wedding are a heap of works and delegation of the same results in having a nonchalant wedding. You can relax your friend by taking some of the duties and play your role well. Your friend would need you for a constant support, sharing personal feelings and many other mood swings. Your friend might expect a happening wedding and you be there as a director. Here we present you with some ideas, of how you can be of great help to your friend planning his/her wedding?
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Become party planner
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If you come in a friend category, you are the only person in the whole crowd who deserves and get that further liberty to turn your friend’s expectations and dreams on run. Be the first to initiate things and try to find out what’s your friend’s idea about the kind of wedding he/she ever wanted and try to make it possible. Keep yourself updated with different apps and tick their choices. Don’t make your own choices rule your friend’s choices. Try to be more patient and smart with the things.
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It’s okay to be extra
Keep yourself away from the things that require full attention, rather work as a bulwark and be available on an immediate call. Most people don’t focus on this concept of being that extra person. But, you know what? A guardian angel could be a blessing for both family and your friend. You won’t realise what difference you are creating by the type of job you have chosen for yourself. It is something better than greater.
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Become secretary, the parent or an advisory
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There are many roles that a friend can play at their friend’s wedding. You can always become their secretary and keep a check over their parlor sessions, on the spot payments, pick and drop handlings, collecting and dropping things and much more or you can be that emotional support like a parent to your friend. Your friend might get emotional with the thought of wedding and does not want to show to their parents, become that ephemeral parent and lend your shoulder and let them be heard. Be an advisory and inform them about the things they should know well before their wedding.
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Chip in extra sensitivity
As we know marriages are a union of lots of people, and their nature and perspective might differ. You need to contribute your extra sensitivity while dealing with the unfavorable situations and handle them with logics and sensibilities. Your mindfulness and activeness would help families to drop down their tensions and burdens to some extent. A logical and balanced person has got the ability to turn a menace into positivity.
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Use your contacts
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Weddings are an expensive affair. Revive your contacts and keep your mind on the vehicle, run for the best deals as much as you can. Trust me your friend could not stop thanking you for this all their life. Your connections might help your friend’s wedding to be more budget savvy. You can be that star who knows how to make things happen and by whom.
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Be pacific
In any wedding, there could be already an immense heap of tensions. You can never really calculate or assume anybody’s reaction. As a well-wisher to your friend, you should keep yourself calm and pacific to avoid extra confusion and chaos. Be there selflessly with your mood not controlled by any external forces.
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High on energy
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And here is my amazing tip to you, be high on energy, keep yourself hydrated and stomach full. You will be needed every time and everywhere, from the rush to relax you need to keep your shoes laced up and yes, don’t forget to make your moves and looks glam the whole wedding. Be your friend’s crown and talk of the town. Weddings without happening events is all bore. You can save your friend’s wedding by pouring in extra energy by your collective dance performance and bringing all the dancers on floor.
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The share partner
From gossips to emotions, what becomes permanent is your sharing. From sharing the closet to sharing the biggest secrets, sharing is the most important idea for any friendship. Amid the entire heavy budget shopping, you can always help your friend by lending things that might prove to them of great importance and save them from spending extra money for the same and solve their affordability issues. In short, sharing is never new to any friendship.
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Some extra fun author
Do you believe in the fun that one feels inside them on mysteriously meeting their darling? Well, friends can make that possible. Think out of the box and help your friend in enjoying their courtship period to the best world possible. You might not realize what memory calendar you are gifting to your friend.
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Know when to stop
There are certain personal things that find their decency if kept personal. Help your friend by not pushing yourself into your friend’s personal matters. You should be aware of that fine line from where you need to back off.
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Go help shopping
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The biggest battle of any wedding drama is shopping. Any wedding is incomplete without shopping and having that thing done right with the best option is quite a big deal. You can help your friend by accompanying them throughout their wedding shopping, yeah but, only if they ask. As we know, what a friend sees fashion is a real fashion.
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Its honeymoon
True! Wedding fever does not end at the wedding, but its magic continues after it too. The honeymoon could be considered one of the most amazing parts of married life. I believe it is the most awaited thing for any couple. Good news for you, if you are thinking and are confused about what gift you can give to your darling friend. Help them having their best time, you can plan or gift them their honeymoon tickets. They would surely be grateful to you.
The wedding seems to be a stupendous event, but as things come nearby it becomes really exhaustive and freaky. Handling such a big affair like wedding, things might get really critical but with little help and thoughtfulness, one can always turns that chaos into a beautiful memory. For your friend’s big day you need to keep yourself organized, ready and calm. Research is required at every level, from your friend’s choice to availability of resources, as a helping friend you can always try to bring that balance betwixt the two. Don’t just freak out; also never let your fun part fade away
The most important thing is to be happy after all it’s your friend’s wedding. Don’t focus too much on things that are hard to make peace with, rather focus on every positivity. Weddings are always special and when it is your friend’s wedding, trust me it’s more fun than you would have at your own wedding. There will always be some negativity around but close your ears and keep letting those peppy beats wink your crazy moods.
Author Bio:-
Shantanu works as an inbound content marketer at Gay Celebrant. Melbourne and has helped develop it to cater to the LGBTIQ Wedding industry since 2018. He has closely worked with Bronte Price to learn the traits of the Australian wedding industry and loves to share his acute observations through blogging, weaving them into a brand story. He also loves to cook, trek, travel, dance and claims to have found his why in helping small business owners bloom into established brands.
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